Why I'm here....

Since I've always been quick with an opinion an old friend once lost and again found suggested that perhaps I should share with more people my commentary. Never being one to pass on a challenge I thought I'd give it a whirl.

Friday, February 19, 2010

Sex in America




Warning to anyone who doesn’t want to know… Don’t read this…



A friend of mine is hosting an adult toy party in March. I suppose those types of events would shock some people. I’m not easily shocked so yes I’ll be there. For all my family and friends that read that I’m sorry if that is shocking, but I am forty-two years old so yes I am familiar with sex. What is surprising more than anything I could find being shown or sold at this party is that our government once again in it’s wisdom has stepped in and said what can and can not go on in the privacy of ones very own home. There are a few guys who are gay who wanted to attend this party, but the government has decided that they do not want to allow mixed sexes at this party. You can either have all guys or all girls. Now what I don’t understand is what would the difference be in “straight” guys and girls attending this party or a room full of “lesbians” or “gay” guys attending this party together? Obviously the intent here is that if you have men at this party with women then of course something of a sexual nature could happen. Heaven forbid we are all adults and can act humanly. Isn’t it the same in all aspects of our lives? I mean when I go to the health club I share a locker room with women who may be straight or may be gay. I have no way of knowing and to tell you the truth I don’t rightly care either way or even think about it when I’m there. We all manage to behave ourselves, get dressed and co-exist without anyone being molested in the process. It just seems to me to be a little on the extreme side for our government yet again. Either way you look at it; these parties are not for everyone. I mean there are the light of heart that would die upon seeing some of the toys people choose to use in their time of leisure. I know what most of the toys are and what most of them are used for if anyone has any questions out there for me, but that doesn’t mean I use them. There are some of them that I look at and have to wonder why on earth someone would want to do that in the first place, but hey to each their own. This upcoming party has definitely made for some interesting talk while just sitting around in small groups. It is also very enlightening in that you find that even in the smallest of groups there is a wide and diverse difference in the way each and every person feels about sexual behavior and what is or is not “out of the norm”. I say whatever you do behind closed doors is up to you and your partner and no one else as long as it’s legal and there are no minors involved. Whatever you choose to do though please practice it safely so you can stay around and enjoy a few more years of your life. I was listening to my IPOD at work and came across the song by Reba, “She Thinks His Name Was John”. It reminded me, not that I had forgotten, about how important it is to practice safe sex, of course abstinence is the safest, but hey what can you do. The song is about a woman who always, except one time practiced safe sex and from that one time she contracted aids. If you have a partner who you trust and who you love get tested and stay faithful. That is probably the best advice I can give you because that few minutes could mean your life. Sex in America has not really changed over the years, but the way people view it definitely has. Stay safe.






3 comments:

ethan1066 said...

really interesting to know about such kind of sex toys party..it' s really a fun there..i just wish to be there..i love mens sex toys..they are mine true friends..

ida said...

lol

ida said...

wow ethan...........i've seen alot today....lol