Morals for One, Not Two...

"Judge not Least Ye Be Judged." Yet this is what we all do daily, so it's probably fitting that each and everyone of us is judged by someone every day. I would say it's even kind of human nature and not doing it takes practice. I catch myself all the time making quick snap judgements about people before I've ever given them a chance to prove me right or wrong. Think about it: we judge people by what they wear, how they look, how they talk, how much they weight, what color their skin is, what their marital status is, and even what their sexual preference is. I am sure there are a million other things too. Some of them go through our minds even before we have had a chance to process the entire situation. Some are instinct, some are prejudice, some are just our up bringing. No matter what our moral fiber though one thing holds fast in my mind. I, nor anyone else has the right to push their moral intent or ideas on me or anyone else. I agree that there are certain standards that "society" has decided are acceptable or not, but there are a multitude of mistakes that are all my own to make. No judgement needed by anyone because if I am making the wrong decisions I've found my own conscience and deep seeded regret will make me pay for the mistake much more than anyone else could possibly ever come close to. Trust me when I do tell you that I do have a few regrets in life too and most of them I knew I would regret at the time I did them. One thing I have stuck to is I would never go out with or date a married man. Isn't going to happen and trust me I've been asked out by a few; however, even though I feel it is wrong, it is not my place to make that decision for someone else or tell them how to react. I think they would regret it eventually, but it still isn't any of my business. I just don't understand what drives people to take it upon themselves to try to tell others how to live their lives. I am so grateful that I have several great friends who won't judge me to my face anyway. They are supportive and may tell me their opinion if I ask, but they don't pass judgement or sentence. I guess what I am trying to say is before you go digging for buried skeletons in my back yard, you might want to look in your own first. No one's perfect and I say thank God for that. Our faults at times make us interesting. So morals for one.. check please.